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 Listening to sad movie sound tracks is not what I should do at the moment. I am feeling sort of depressed. Being kept inside by abysmal weather (a winter that was no winter but brought constant rain, a few spring days with 30 degrees, afterwards a long period of cool and lots of rain again), people around dying or getting sick, friends I won't consider friends anymore- definitely not a good combo. The thing with my friend was to be expected. She has pushed her boundaries way too often and too far. It´s always about doing her part of a friendship. It would be nice if only for once she´d pay for the coffee she wants to have in a café and not let pay me instead. It´s just her way to run for the toilet when we are about leave. She will only come back when I have handled the payment. Or be the one who does the driving now and then. And pay all what she has had on her list, not transferring things to my side and take them, after I have paid them, which reminds me that I better learn to keep the bills. Or not complaining about being bullied (though I am inclined to understand that part, if there are more victims of her shopping pol) but is bullying herself. She is financially well provided. But she is a penny-pincher. Must save a lot of money this way...
Today was a fine day- not overly warm, quite windy, but nice with a lot of sunshine. Hubby and I preened the garden (the one at the frontside, never go to the back of the house!) and did grocery shopping afterwards. Number three phoned thrice to get a hint at what to get his nephew for his birthday. Behaves as if he does not have Amazon to the rescue. And that he is able to order the present from home and get it sent to our address. My guess is that after family number two is back from vacation the boys will show up for the next days anyway, so that their mum can recuperate. Tomorrow my husband will do a lot of Schnitzel while I will peel potatoes for roasted potatoes with rosemary. and do the cucumber salad, because husband mine loves to put too much salt in and onto everything. Now I wonder if hubby will have a relapse to backache. He always has one when doing Schnitzel! Must be the amount of time he spends bent over the bowls with the ingredients for the breading!
At the moment the house gets swamped with spiders. I am on a killing spree all day long. Also lots of spider webs will show up each day. Funny thing is that I have never found a single moth in one of them. To be honest, there hasn´t been anything in those webs. Maybe they do weave it for decoration only and hunt their prey by chasing it along the ceiling. Or there´s a hidden spider bar serving snacks I haven´t found yet. Today hubby was removing the webs for the second time since Sunday. That´s gross!