It is decided

 We went to son number two for lunch and to discuss the proceedings in July, when he will be alone with the boys. I told both son and hubby to let the older of the boys tell us his opinion about staying in kindergarten a month longer. Cassian knows that his best friends will not attend, so he does not want to either. The workshop his mother wanted him to attend at the end of July is most likely closed- term of application was in April, Dil has missed registration deadline. Unfortunately son has work to do until early August- now DiL is upset, because she wanted him to join her in Romania for more vacation. Seems that there is a problem arising, because she is hell-bent on spending at least two weeks with her relatives, the ones who did not want to take on her boys in July. Hubby and I left early, to let the two discuss the problem. At home I thoroughly regretted to have left my mobile in the bedroom- never before I had a whole squadron of sparrows on the windowsill hunting for a fat fly. That was precious to watch! Now both hubby and I are awaiting DiL´s next try to get her boys into our house. Flavius has been diagnosed with streptococci on Friday and is on antibiotics for ten days. DiL seems to suffer from a sore throat- surely the streptococci did hit her, too, she says. I told her that my throat had started to ache the day before, maybe because of Flavius spreading his germs when at our house last Tuesday. I am pretty sure that come tomorrow DiL will have forgotten about my sore throat and will want hubby to pick the boys up from kindergarten and keep them, until her husband is back home from work. Good luck to me! Hubby is more likely the one who will go after DiL´s wishes!